Supporting a healthy relationship with food during the holidays

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The holiday season is often filled with joy, laughter, and, of course, food. From festive feasts to sweet treats, the holidays can be a delightful time for culinary indulgence. However, this time of year can also pose challenges for maintaining a healthy relationship with food. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by social pressures, emotional eating, and the fear of weight gain. Here are some tips to help you support a healthy relationship with food during the holidays while still enjoying the festivities.

Embrace Mindful Eating

Mindful eating is about being present and aware while you eat. It involves paying attention to your hunger and fullness cues, as well as savoring the flavors and textures of your food. 

  • Tips for Mindful Eating:

    • Slow Down: Take your time during meals. Put your fork down between bites and engage in conversation.

    • Listen to Your Body:Tune into your hunger signals. Eat when you're hungry and stop when you're satisfied, not stuffed.

    • Enjoy Every Bite:Focus on the flavors and aromas of your food, which can enhance your enjoyment and satisfaction.

Balance is Key

The holidays are a time for celebration, and that often includes rich, indulgent foods. Rather than restricting yourself… aim for balance.

  • Strategies for Balancing Your Plate:

    • Incorporate Healthy Options: Fill half your plate with vegetables or salads before diving into heavier dishes.

    • Practice Balanced Serving Sizes: Nourish yourself with thoughtful servings including a variety of protein, healthy fats, and fiber-rich carbohydrates. This way, you can indulge without overdoing it.

Stay Active

Physical activity is a great way to support your mental and physical well-being during the holiday season. Exercise can help alleviate stress, boost your mood, and offset some of the extra calories.

  • Ideas for Staying Active:

    • Plan Group Activities: Organize a family walk, hike, or game that involves movement.

    • Join a Class: Look for seasonal fitness classes, like yoga or dance, that can be fun and festive.

Manage Emotional Eating

The holidays can bring about a mix of emotions, and food can sometimes become a coping mechanism. Recognizing emotional triggers is key to fostering a healthy relationship with food.

  • Strategies to Combat Emotional Eating:

    • Regular Meal Times: Establish a routine for your meals and snacks to help regulate your hunger cues.

    • Hydration: Sometimes, thirst is mistaken for hunger. Drink water regularly to stay hydrated.

    • Find Alternatives: Instead of turning to food for comfort, try other activities like reading, journaling, or spending time with loved ones.

Practice Gratitude

Shifting focus from food to gratitude can help cultivate a positive mindset. Reflecting on what you are thankful for can enhance your overall well-being during the holiday season.

  • Ways to Practice Gratitude:

    • Keep a Gratitude Journal: Write down things you’re thankful for each day, including experiences, relationships, and moments of joy.

    • Share Gratitude with Others: During gatherings, take a moment to express what you appreciate about those around you.


Communicate Your Needs

If you have specific dietary preferences or restrictions, don’t hesitate to communicate them with family and friends. Most people will appreciate your honesty and want to accommodate your needs.

  • Tips for Effective Communication:

    • Be Honest and Kind: Share your nutritional needs without apologizing or feeling guilty.

    • Bring Your Own Dish: Offer to bring a healthy dish to share at gatherings, ensuring there’s something you can enjoy.

Enjoy the Moment

Finally, remember that the holidays are about connection and celebration, not just food. Enjoy the company of loved ones and the spirit of the season. It may be helpful to focus on experiences and engage in activities that don’t revolve around food, such as playing games, watching movies, or crafting. 


Supporting a healthy relationship with food during the holidays is all about balance, mindfulness, and self-compassion. By incorporating these strategies, you can navigate the festive season with joy and satisfaction while maintaining your well-being. Celebrate the holidays by focusing on connection, gratitude, and mindful indulgence, allowing yourself to enjoy this special time of year fully. Happy holidays!

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Published: December 2nd, 2024

This blog post was written by Amanda Sikkema, a dietitian at Katie Chapmon Nutrition. Amanda works with clients virtually and is accepting new clients.

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